Christenings mark one of life's great milestones - a day filled with joy, love and tradition. As family and friends gather to celebrate the new little life, we create memories that last a lifetime.
At Bernstorff Castle we love life's celebrations - from weddings to birthdays, anniversaries and of course christenings. That's why we know that beautiful surroundings, good planning and presence make all the difference. Here are our top tips for a christening day that feels personal, warm and wonderfully memorable.
Find the perfect date
Plan the christening when it best suits your family. Many choose to schedule the christening when the baby is between three and six months old, but there are no set rules. The most important thing is that the day feels right for you.
Consider the child's circadian rhythm and schedule the ceremony during times when the child is typically most awake. Morning ceremonies work well - followed by a lunch with time to enjoy each other in peace and quiet. Remember to coordinate with the church well in advance and choose a venue that supports your wishes.
Of course, the time of year also has something to say. Spring, summer and late summer are ideal if you dream of celebrating in green surroundings - for example in the Castle Park at Bernstorff Castle.
Nature is at its best in spring - making it the perfect time of year for christenings
Set the tone with the invitations
The invitation is your first opportunity to create excitement and anticipation for your guests. Personalize the invitations - perhaps with a picture of the child, small hand-drawn elements, or a color theme that runs throughout the day.
Whether you choose printed cards or digital invitations, you should include all the necessary information: times, addresses, dress codes and parking options if applicable.
Remember to include times, addresses, dress code and parking information. If you're holding your party at Bernstorff Castle, we offer free parking and cozy rooms for overnight guests - perfect for those coming from far away.
Last but not least, send out the invitations 6-8 weeks before the day of the christening so that everyone can reserve the date in their calendars.
It pays to be early with the invitations
Godmother and godfather - who do you choose?
When planning the christening, you need to decide who will be the godmother and godfather. Traditionally, one of them carries the baby during the christening ceremony, but it's also fine if you as parents want to carry your baby yourself.
The choice of godmother and godfather is entirely your own. They can be close family members, close friends or other people you want to have a special bond with your child. Many people associate the role with a lifelong relationship - but there are no formal requirements for the role.
Choose the right frame
Christenings are about bringing people together in the spirit of love. Consider whether you want an informal atmosphere in your living room, a cozy party in the garden or an elegant celebration in historic and picturesque surroundings like Bernstorff Castle.
We offer solemn and spacious function rooms where the atmosphere of the castle's 250-year history meets modern comfort. Whatever your choice of venue, it should support the atmosphere you want: intimate, beautiful and relaxed.
At Bernstorff Castle you will find bright and inviting banquet rooms
Create a simple and inviting menu
Food brings guests together - especially when served with care. A christening lunch doesn't have to be complicated; small light dishes, brunch buffets or cake tables create a relaxed and informal atmosphere where guests can enjoy the day at their own pace.
At Bernstorff Castle, our restaurant creates christening menus composed of the season's best ingredients, created with love and craftsmanship.
See examples of our party menus here.
If you're having the party at home, a mix of home cooking and catering can also be a great option so the hosts can relax and enjoy the day.
The kitchen at Bernstorff Castle has extensive experience with party menus - and christenings are no exception
Let the decorations tell your story
Beautiful details make the day memorable. Flowers in light pastels, fine napkins, pictures of the baby and candlelight create an atmosphere that feels both personal and elegant.
Working with skilled florists can ensure that the tables exude warmth and thoughtfulness. At Bernstorff Castle, for example, we work with Bering House of Flowers, who have many years of experience with decorations for all of life's celebrations.
Think about cozy corners for the kids, where cushions and small activities invite them to play and take breaks.
Bjarne from House of Bering Flowers talks about the collaboration with Bernstorff Castle
Enjoy the moment
Once everything is planned, the rest is about being present. Christenings are a celebration of love and new beginnings - and it's the little moments, the smiles, the laughter and the presence that become memories.
Whether the party is held at home or in the majestic surroundings of Bernstorff Castle, it's the love for the child and the community that makes the day unforgettable.
Would you like to hear more about the possibility of celebrating a christening at Bernstorff Castle in North Zealand? Then contact us today - we'll be happy to give you more tips for the big day.
